Sometimes wisdom flows through you. When you have compassion, all good things will come through you. If you don't have compassion and if you are selfish, then only the negative will come out of you. When you are learning to teach your children, your first responsibility is to develop compassion, but if compassion is not there, then imparting knowledge is like planting seeds in a barren field in which nothing will grow. Thus, the first stage of a parent's growth is to develop compassion.
Never close the gates of learning; they should remain open. There is no end to knowledge; don't allow yourself to think that you know everything. Always remember that you still have more to learn, because there is no end to your learning. This knowledge is Anata limitless. With such love and compassion you should try to teach your children and attend to each child personally.
It is helpful to form a habit of doing your exercise, breathing practices, eating your meals, and going to bed at exactly the same time every day. These are four important functions that you should regulate. You will enjoy life better if you do this.
If you came across any great, successful, creative, and dynamic person, you probably noticed one habit they possess is to bring all good and creative idea they receive into process without delay. If you really want to be creative and successful, the first you need to discipline yourself. Do not remain idle and inert.
This is an important secret of life; if you remain idle without doing something useful your mind thinks scattered and random thoughts, and wastes its energy. Your good thoughts should definitely be brought into action. A thought is like an unripened fruit that is not yet eaten by anyone. Ripening fruit means bringing a positive thought into action. Many good thoughts die because they are not brought into action.
To be creative in this manner is technique that have to learn for yourself by forming good, sound, healthy habits, physically and mentally. A positive, dynamic person conducts his duties well and has established coordination between his thoughts, speech and action.
Your personality can be changed in this lifetime, you can attain the highest rung of life, a state free from pain and misery. Don't postpone this, as you postpone the other joys of your life. Enlightenment is your birthright; that state is freedom from pain and misery. Enlightenment is not something acquired or new-it is already there within. You can realize that state. Learn to work with yourself to remove the barriers to your growth. Learn to transform your habits and thus purify and perfect your personality. This is your challenge-to transform your own personality!
When you do something unconsciously, it means that your habit pattern is very deep and you are not aware of it. When you do things unconsciously it means that you accept a kind of helplessness in that area, and when you have accepted defeat in working with yourself then you secretly condemn yourself, and then, when someone else says something you resent, you become outraged and offended.
For this, sit down and observe what you are thinking. You actually already know; you really know all your weaknesses and actually you are busy hiding them.
It is mind that creates hell and heaven for you. These two concepts exist in the mind. Heaven is a concept of tranquility; hell is a concept of great distress. it is the mind that creates both. You have glorious opportunities to create heaven for yourself.
Perhaps you are not happy with some event from past; perhaps you expected too much of yourself. Then you condemn yourself by thinking that you have not done enough, and you constantly repeat the thought that your past actions were not healthy or good. Thus, you have created a habit of condemning yourself, which created negativity in your mind. But the present and future actions are still completely in your hands, and that is where you should focus your mind.
You have the power to change the destiny of your life. You have the power to change your personality. You have the power to mold the entire stream of your life, to give a new direction to your life. There is one difficulty in doing this, however, and direction to your habit patterns. Your personality is a particular character, woven by your habit patterns but how are your habits themselves formed? Your habits are formed because you have repeated some action or thought again and again. Thus, it becomes a habit. Then, you unconsciously do it; eventually, it is a full-fledged habit. When you understand that all your habits are formed by the simple process of repeating some action or thoughts again and again, then you can learn another process, that of undoing and changing your habits.
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